第112章 第六卷 第十三章 托斯卡納的春天

    ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;>了，談戀愛少說得要個兩年時間才好談婚論嫁吧？就算現在一談一個準，結婚也3<span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;

    ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;>了，要是這相親又幾經波折，你到底打算讓爸媽等到什么時候？我們歲數大了可帶不動孫子。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>孟維醞釀了一下，復說：&ldqu;媽，我現在有物件了。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>他膽戰心驚地等了好一會兒，他才看到老媽的文字復：&ldqu;什么時候的事？能給媽看一下那姑娘的照片嗎？&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;沒多久，等我國了再跟你說。&rdqu;

    <span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;為什么非要等國？就讓爸媽看一下人家長什么模樣又不難。&rdqu;

    <span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;現在正處著呢，等我覺得適的時候再跟你們介紹。&rdqu;孟維已經覺得手心冒汗了。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;兒子。&rdqu;老媽發了條音訊過來，&ldqu;你現在這個年紀談戀愛不再是玩玩、打發寂寞用的，說白了就是奔著結婚去，媽提醒你不要浪費時間做沒指望的事情。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>不要浪費時間做沒指望的事

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>最難過的時刻就是像現在這樣，和媽媽隔著窗戶紙互相試探，孟維沒有十足地把握去面對捅破窗戶紙的後果，他能做的只有儘量地把這個狀態再往後拖一拖，儘量地抓緊做些鋪墊和緩衝。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>他把他的想法和歐雋坤分享，告訴他自己現在的無助和擔憂。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>歐雋坤在skype<span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>那頭問他：&ldqu;你有多愛你爸媽？&rdqu;

    <span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;非常愛，沒他們就沒有我。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;如果你愛他們就不要欺騙他們，告訴他們你最真實的自己。只要你自己做好準備，任何時候我都可以奉陪到底。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>孟維正如去年和歐雋坤商量出櫃時那樣，這次和歐雋坤在義大利過新年並沒有刻意隱瞞爸媽，始終對歐雋坤和父母這邊都示以坦蕩的態度。

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;我現在最怕的是我爸媽不能接受，我媽已經在暗示我她不同意我們的事&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>&ldqu;這是兩個問題，需要各個擊破，所以我們要分開來看。首先，關於出櫃，你只是在向他們陳述一個事實，不管他們接受與否，這就是一個連上帝都無法改變的客觀事實。打個比方，你父母一直知道你吃飯用右手，而這次你只是告訴他們你的左手一樣可以靈活地用筷子夾菜，而我也並非讓你對父母撒謊說&lsqu;我的右手廢了、現在只能用左手吃飯&rsqu;，所以我們向他們出櫃只是告訴他們真實的自己，這是一次沒有隱瞞，沒有欺騙的交談，道理就是這樣簡單。其次，關於父母是否同意我們在一起，我們要做好打持久戰的準備，不急在一朝一夕。就我的分析來看，你父母那樣愛你又不是腐朽老頑固，如果非要列舉出一個他們不同意的理由，就是擔心你不夠幸福，只要接下來讓他們看到你過得很幸福，他們自然會慢慢接受。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>聽歐雋坤如此冷靜分析，孟維感覺輕鬆許多，對父母親的負罪感也少了幾分，&ldqu;歐雋坤，假如不是因為你，我一定不會有那樣的勇氣。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>歐雋坤心中一動，&ldqu;我知道你一直很勇敢，但我從不介意你變得更勇敢一些。&rdqu;頓了頓挑眉道，&ldqu;為了我們。&rdqu;

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    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>說話間孟維已經在紙上畫出一幅簡筆卡通畫來，他笑眯眯地將這副小畫展示到攝像頭前給歐雋坤看，畫上的土撥鼠先生和小鳥先生穿著拜仁的正紅色場球衣球褲手拉著手站在一起，而它們空出的手都在比著勝利的V<span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;

    ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;>字，底下一排拜仁的熱血精神LOGO<span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>，力透紙背：Mia San Mia<span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

    &qut;Times New Rman&qut;>！（We are wh we are!<span style=fnt-family:宋體;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;Times New Rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:

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